Women sometimes says No but really mean Yes: Read How to tell

“How can you tell when she actually means yes when she says "no"?”

I love how no one touches the situation that is really at play here and people try and treat addressing it or avoiding it as scared or something, so I am just going to come out and say it.

Many women are messed up in the head, and sadly I have a relative that doesn’t get how truly messed up that is.

So many women do this and think it is playful or teasing or worse yet, a test to try and see if you are a “man” and “dominate”.

My own girl friend in question does this always but one thing that ‘triggered’ me was when she was discussing it with her fellow female friends and I heard the phrase “When you are doing and she says “No” but actually means yes.” and she agreed with it fully.

I called her out on it and told her “That this mentality is toxic for women to have and that the only one who takes the risk here in the man.”

So I will stick with that response, cut ties with this woman because in reality, she could mean yes the whole way and be “testing you” as a man, but what you are REALLY doing is sticking your own neck in her noose for the future if say you two either have a falling out or she tries to use the excuse that she said “No” to cover up either her regret or affair to another.

If you have a woman who gets mad at you for not knowing her “No” meant a “Yes” then get out, dodge that bullet an leave that potential false rape charge or sexual assault allegation in another foolish man’s hands, don’t let it be your hands.

Only you care about your own personal safety and well-being. Only you are responsible for your own image and legal standing.

So, if she says “No” just do not take the risk at all, no naked woman or night lay is worth the potential rape allegation, even if she is saying “No” while heavily, physically implying “Yes”. Just don’t risk it.

One night of sex is not worth a lifetime of being labeled a sexual predator or worse, spending years in jail.

If she gets mad, let her and leave her. She can be someone else’s allegation, don’t let it be yours.

Save your own neck first.

Best of Luck.